WHY WE SHOULD ALWAYS BE TRUE TO OULSELVES

   I am a strong believer that we're souls who have lived even long before the existence, I don't know in what dispensation but we're here for a purpose. but until we've  fond that which we have been called for until then haven't  truly lived, in other to do this you need to be willing, believe and opened to change until we can be our true self.

 Being true to ourselves is not an easy task, infect it take a lot work, overcoming of self doubts and insecurity, dropping habits you are used to, self discipline, cutting ties with some friends, taking time alone, accepting you're nothing and can be something more, knowing you are here to learn. even after all the bumps in the road of life, you will stand up dust yourself cos the future is so bright. you'll learn to stay alone, enjoy your own company while reflecting on your life. don't get me wrong I never said be anti-social cos most people get it all mixed up. you have to be kind to people just respect your privacy, you need time to heal, recruit, regroup then you execute. besides you can only give what you have. now to my main topic.

 I cant specifically give you one reason to be true to yourself but here's what I know, like I said previously, we're souls who have existed longtime ago, and in our existence we existed among some vital people with same goal, dream, purpose and paradigm. lets see it this way, if you live a life of mediocre, never true to yourselves, always following everything the world say its ok cos it suites their narrow way of thinking. guess what you will be living your life pleasing everyone but yourself being unhappy, resenting everything, feeling lost,... you even tend your blessing by attracting the wrong people and not the wright people, and even if along the way you luckily attract them you will definitely loose them cos good things cant thrive a place where its not appreciated especially confused.

 I used to not necessary care but  cared a lot what people around me said, and at a point I stumbled a lot, please others why feeling empty. I knew deep down my worth, what I was capable of but I wasn't seeing through the eye or my eyes. I was seeing thru their eyes. most of them lies, I had to stop before I lost everything that made me me. now I stand , tell and see from a clearer view. I cant say what life holds exactly cos change is the only constant thing. but this very much I know, I'll seize my day, grow everyday , learn , love, be happy, protect my space and time with all jealousy and invest in me and also always both consciously or consciously forgive myself.


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